We gather in a spirit of humility, perhaps in silence for a while. We look around and one by one give our first name and a few more words, if we feel like it. The facilitator senses when it is time to start the work.

Who ever feels that it is their turn to ASK – let’s call that one the SEEKER – selects from the group one or more participants and invites them to represent the ones who are perhaps holding the answers to the seeker’s question that cries for a resolution .

“Why am I so depressed?”
“Why am I afflicted by this illness?”
“Why has my daughter run away?”
“Why don’t I have a partner?”

or any other deeply troubling worry.

These questions asked in a spirit of openness and trust will allow us to enter the universal space that holds the answer.

The seeker simply watches what unfolds between the represented members of his/her family; like watching a constellation of stars in the sky, the seeker observes the constellation of the family members: how they are with one another, witnessing a slow and gentle move towards harmony encouraged by the care and guidance of the facilitator and attentive presence of group members.

The representatives remain fully centered and aware of who they are yet they allow to be moved by the energy of the family system they represent.

The whole group holds the seeker and the seeker’s question in it’s centered awareness and thus allows for insights and answers to emerge. Sometimes we can see our lives from a new perspective and look at old patterns with “fresh eyes”. Often we immediately feel more relaxed, yet stronger, ready to face life with renewed energy.




16.3. & 17.3.2019. ISTANBUL –  Max (English & Turkish)

30.3. & 31.3.2019. ZAGREB – Alemka (Croatian)

27.4. & 28.4.2019. ANKARA – Max (English & Turkish)

6.4. & 7.4.2019. CYPRUS – Alemka (English & Turkish)

27.4. & 28.4.2019. ZAGREB –  Alemka (Croatian)

25.5. & 26.5.2019. ISTANBUL – Max (English & Turkish)

1.6. & 2.6.2019. BEOGRAD –  Alemka (Croatian)

26.10. & 27.10. 2019. GIRNE, Northern Cyprus – Alemka – English with Turkish translation

26.10. & 27.10. 2019. ANKARA – Max – English with Turkish translation

7.12. & 8.12.2019 ISTANBUL – Passing Life On – Alemka – English with Turkish translation


Themed workshops which you can host in your town:





CONSTELLATOR’S PATH: Journey of a Common Hero

NEW CONSTELLATIONS according to Hellinger

DEATH & DYING: Light at the end of a tunnel


More detailed schedule of our workshops with registration information,

you can find HERE


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